Why not ask him where he wants the relationship to go. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. The struggle is real. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. The submariner's wives are in a similar situation. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times.
The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already. A lot of people are religious. Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. That contributes to status in her culture. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. I could go on, but this should give you the idea. I'm grateful that my husband is not the OCD controlling type that others are complaining about. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church.
If so that's a good sign. And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. I tried my best, every bit of me…. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant. Good luck and my prayers are with you.