I can relate to this post. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. But I don't know that he does the same for me.




Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. Thanks for sharing your experiences. So if you are caffeine junky, be sure that you can adjust to and accept your date's beliefs before going on a date. I am so happy I found this blog. I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back together. That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. Not a Medscape Member. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband.
Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. For reference we're both in our mids. Ma'am I really do thank you for being very blunt and quite honest in your writing about your life. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. Men search the world for women that they can stand to be around with long-term.
Good luck to you and your family with the rest of fellowship. Those will make her think. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. Global Resource for Healthcare Professionals.